Illinois Family Law Blog

Family law blog by Patrick Markey, Attorney at Law

Welcome to our divorce and family law blog, updating you on the law, trends and issues affecting relationships and families.

Common Divorce Fears: Will My Divorce Harm Our Children?

One of the most common fears people have about divorce is the potential harm it may cause to their children. While it is true that divorce is hard on children, staying in a toxic relationship can also have detrimental effects. So how can you protect your children during [...]

How To Have a Positive Co-Parenting Experience For Your Kids

Co-parenting is an important part of how you handle your divorce and more importantly how you will handle your post-divorce life. A good working co-parenting relationship is crucial for the well-being of your children. The starting point for co-parenting is to focus on effective communication, prioritizing the children’s [...]

Divorce When a Special Needs Child is Involved

There are unique considerations and decisions that come with divorcing parents of a special needs child should be carefully examined. There is no standard solution for parents with a special needs child because each situation is different and requires customized solutions. Here are some of the key decisions [...]

Advantages of Co-Parenting Apps During and After Divorce

Co-parenting during and after a divorce can be an enormous challenge, but modern technology has brought forth a solution: co-parenting apps. These apps, such as Our Family Wizard and Talking Parents, offer a plethora of advantages to make the co-parenting journey smoother and more organized for you [...]

What is “Joint Custody” in Illinois

In divorce and child custody matters, the term “joint custody” has undergone a transformation in Illinois, where it is now referred to as “parental responsibility.” How does parental responsibility impact divorced parents and their children? Parental responsibility in Illinois consists of two primary components: decision-making and parenting time. [...]

Why I am Participating in Divorce with Respect Week

Participating in Divorce with Respect Week holds profound significance for me, rooted in my strong belief in the power of collaborative methods and mediation. Over the years, I’ve come to understand that the essence of a respectful divorce lies in resolving conflicts outside the courtroom—a task demanding considerable [...]

Pros and Cons of Prenuptial Agreements

You have just gotten engaged, and the excitement is exhilarating. In the midst of the wedding preparations and dreams of a shared future, the question of a prenuptial agreement (prenup) might arise. But what are the pros and cons of taking this legal step? Having Important Conversations Before [...]

The Hidden Threat of Losing Alimony or Spousal Maintenance Payments in Illinois

After a divorce is over, alimony or spousal maintenance as it’s known in Illinois serves as a financial lifeline for many people. However, what you may not realize is that you can lose receiving those spousal maintenance payments in Illinois in ways other than by getting married. The [...]

How Do I Protect My Child’s Emotional Well-Being During Our Divorce?

Divorce is very often a tumultuous situation for the couple, but children should never get caught in the crossfire. As parents, you need to be vigilant about safeguarding your child’s emotional well-being during this challenging time. Here are some essential strategies to help you to provide a stable [...]

Navigating The Holidays During Divorce: A Guide To Co-Parenting

The holiday season is a time of joy, togetherness, and cherished traditions for many families. If you are divorced or in the process of getting divorced, managing the holidays can be a complex issue filled with emotions, especially when children are involved. If you’re divorced or getting divorced, [...]

Should You Move Out During a Divorce? Consider Your Options Carefully

When a marriage reaches the point of divorce, it often raises questions and concerns. One of the common dilemmas that individuals face is whether they should move out of the house or continue living together during the divorce process. Here are some valuable tips on this topic: Don’t [...]

7 Tips For Selecting The Right Collaborative Divorce Attorney

When seeking legal guidance for your divorce, opting for a Collaborative Divorce can make the process smoother and less adversarial. Collaborative Divorce involves you and your spouse and your attorneys working together to find amicable solutions, rather than engaging in a protracted courtroom battle. If you’re considering this [...]

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Illinois Family Law Blog

Family law blog by Patrick Markey, Attorney at Law