Illinois Family Law Blog

Family law blog by Patrick Markey, Attorney at Law

Welcome to our divorce and family law blog, updating you on the law, trends and issues affecting relationships and families.

Life After Divorce: A Legal Checklist for Updating Your Will, Beneficiaries, and Power of Attorney Documents

After a divorce is finalized, many people focus on moving forward emotionally and financially. However, one of the most important post-divorce steps is often overlooked: updating estate planning and legal documents. Without these updates, an ex-spouse may still remain listed in roles that control financial, medical, or [...]

Understanding the Costs of Divorce: Traditional Litigation vs. Collaborative Divorce

Divorce is often viewed as an emotional process, but it is also a financial one. One of the first questions many people ask is, “How much will this cost?” The answer depends largely on the path a couple takes to resolve. In Illinois, divorce can proceed through traditional [...]

Modifying Court Orders: When and How You Can Change Child Support or Parenting Time After Divorce

Even after a divorce is finalized, life rarely stays the same. Jobs change, incomes go up or down, children’s needs evolve, and parenting schedules that once worked smoothly can become difficult over time. In Illinois, divorce judgments are not always permanent when it comes to child support and [...]

High-Conflict Divorce Strategies: Managing an Uncooperative Spouse During Divorce

Not every divorce involves two people calmly working toward a resolution. In some cases, one spouse may be highly combative, emotionally manipulative, or unwilling to cooperate throughout the legal process. These high-conflict divorces can quickly become exhausting, expensive, and emotionally draining for everyone involved, especially when children are [...]

Relocating with Children: Understanding Illinois Rules for Moving After Divorce

After a divorce or custody case, life circumstances can change quickly. A new job opportunity, remarriage, family support, or financial needs may make one parent want to move with their child. But in Illinois, relocating with children is not as simple as packing up and leaving—especially when the [...]

“Equitable Distribution” Explained: Why a 50/50 Split Isn’t Guaranteed in Illinois

“Equitable Distribution” Explained: Why a 50/50 Split Isn’t Guaranteed in Illinois One of the biggest misconceptions people have about divorce is the belief that everything automatically gets split equally between spouses. Many assume that divorce means a simple 50/50 division of all assets and debts. In Illinois, however, [...]

Divorce Timeline in Illinois: What to Expect from Start to Finish

Divorce is not a single event—it’s a process. One of the most common concerns in Cook County is simply not knowing what happens next. Understanding the general timeline can help reduce uncertainty and give you a clearer sense of control. The Divorce Process in Illinois Every case begins [...]

Contested vs. Uncontested Divorce in Illinois: Timelines, Costs, and Key Differences

Not all divorces follow the same path. Some couples reach agreement early and move forward smoothly, while others face disputes that require court involvement. Understanding the difference can help you set expectations and make informed decisions. Uncontested Divorce An uncontested divorce occurs when both parties agree on all [...]

GAL vs. Child’s Representative in Cook County Custody Cases

GAL vs. Child’s Representative in Cook County In contested custody cases in Cook County, the court may appoint someone to represent the child’s interests. The two most common roles are a Guardian ad Litem (GAL) and a Child’s Representative. While both focus on the child, they serve [...]

Are AI Relationships Causing Divorce?

AI companions are increasingly influencing relationships, sometimes even contributing to divorce, by creating a new dependent relationship that is replacing real relationships. While AI can help with organizing thoughts or drafting materials, relying on it for emotional support, legal guidance, or major relationship decisions can create conflict, misinformation, [...]

What if My Child Refuses to Go with Me?

When a child refuses to go with their other parent, it can signal deeper emotional or relational issues. The right response depends on the child’s age, reasons, and family dynamics. In many cases, therapy, especially reunification or co-parenting therapy, is key to understanding the underlying problem and repairing [...]

Divorce: The Power of Apology in Divorce

Divorce isn’t just a legal process; it is an emotional one. A sincere apology can bridge the gap between conflict and closure by acknowledging each spouse’s contributions, easing tension, and unlocking stalled resolutions. An apology can shift the tone from adversarial to understanding, helping both parties move forward [...]