Don’t wait years to get divorced I hear a lot of people use the term “legally separated” incorrectly. When it is said, they are usually trying to state that they are living separate and apart from their spouse and don’t consider themselves with that person anymore. They usually are living separate lives both emotionally and […]
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Divorce can be very financially bad for a family. Two separate households increases the family’s bills substantially. Double the utilities and housing payment. That alone can break a family. Unfortunately, many families that are getting divorced had financial problems during their marriage which help lead to the divorce. One or both spouses spent irresponsibility or […]
Divorce is almost always a painful experience. But you can limit the pain to your finances if you use your lawyer more effectively. All cases are different and some of the suggestions in this guide may not be appropriate for your case. But for most, these suggestions will steer you away from the pitfalls that […]
Many people come to my office tell me they want the case to be done quickly. The thought of a long divorce case makes them sick, and it should. However, many people are not willing to do what it takes to make their divorce quicker because their ego gets in the way. The following are […]
Everyone knows it can be very difficult and expensive to get divorced even if you have been married a short time. Would some of these individuals not be getting divorced (or not have married) if they would have received pre-marital legal counseling or premarital legal counseling? Premarital counseling would discuss sharing finances, financial goals, dispute […]
Leveling the Playing Field This law was enacted in 1997 to allow both parties in a divorce, custody or other domestic relations case seek interim attorneys fees from the other party. The party would need to show that they do not have the ability to pay their own fees, or that the other party has […]
The term “legal separation” is almost always misused by the general public and even lawyers who do not practice in the area of family law. The term itself is very confusing, so I can understand why. Many people say they are “legally separated” from their spouse when what they really mean is that they broke […]
Most people associate divorce with dividing property equally (50/50). It is true that many cases do end up to a be a 50/50 division. I believe that is the case because it is just the easist way to do it. Here is an example: A couple is married for 50 years. One spouse (Spouse A) […]
I am taking a different approach to this post because some people benefit more from hearing what they shouldn’t do than what they should do. I tell almost all my clients that custody cases are won or lost at the beginning of the case. Critical mistakes made at the beginning of the case or before […]
Taking Care of your Mental Health is a Key to a Successful and Quicker Divorce Divorce cases are fairly easy. I can figure out how to solve most of them in a few minutes after receiving all the relevant information I need from the parties. However, it is no surprise to anyone that many divorces […]